“I fantasize about sex with men, but the woman does not know” / 35-year-old doubted about his sexuality: I am gay or…

“I am confused about my sexuality! “Years ago, when I was a student, I got drunk and had oral sex with a man at a party.” has confessed a 35-year-old for the column “Dear Deidre”.

He showed that in that period he liked this thing but then he started to hate himself and never tried it again.

The 35-year-old started his life and married a woman about 5 years ago, but has begun to have doubts about whether he is gay or bisexual.

Excerpts from the story:

Last year I started wearing unisex clothing. My wife knows this and accepts it. I get an emotion from wearing women’s clothes.

But my wife, who is one year older, does not know that I secretly fantasize about sex with men and I have used sex toys.

Now I wonder if I am bisexual or gay.