08.07.2021 – 11:12
Arbana Osmani is a mother of two children and the responsibilities for her have already been increased. After the birth of her youngest son, Diellit, the moderator did not take long to return to television. She even stayed on screen almost until the end of her pregnancy, finding the balance between work and private life.
While with Joni the situation was completely different, as she stayed 2 years completely disconnected from the screen. However both cases have been difficult for her and the reason why she has shown it during a virtual communication with the fans.
“I start work after a week, I have never separated from my son, I am anxious. “Any advice please”, someone asked Arbana and she immediately shared her experience with both births.
“When I gave birth to Joni I took 2 years off work (year of pregnancy and 1 year after birth) I was the happiest man in the world that his birth reborn me as a person but to be honest my usual work and routine I missed him a lot and suffered the disconnect. I did not trust any Nanny and I thought that if I separated from him as little as possible, something would happen and the feelings of guilt would not let me do anything. Thus I became an “exemplary mother” but an unfulfilled woman without my work and passions. With the Sun I decided not to take so long off work and I tried to find a balance but again I feel guilty when I take off for more than a few hours. It is difficult to be a working mom but I believe it is more exhausting to be a full time mom if you love your job like me. So do not feel guilty if work fulfills you and makes you happy. “Happy mother, happy child, don’t forget,” Osmani replied.
